For the prim and posh and tea lovers alike, an afternoon tea party would be the best birthday bash. Throw an elegant affair British-style with beautiful linens, delicate china wares and shiny cuttleries. Then serve your guests with dainty finger foods, traditional scones, cream and jam and mini desserts. Select your favorite loose leaf tea and never forget milk and sugar on the table. Lastly, what is a birthday party without a layered cake?